Over the last few weeks, we’ve been talking about the Epidemic of Loneliness in the world today and how understanding the 5 Levels of Friendship can unlock depth in our relationships. Here they are all together now…
Level 1 – Casual Friendship – This is a guy you’ve met and may or may not remember his name.
Level 2 – Basic Friendship – You act friendly, barely connect and speak about the usual stuff on the surface level only.
Level 3 – Good Friendship – You’re close enough to joke around and open up a bit. There’s some trust…and some caution. He knows you a little, but nothing really personal or deep.
Level 4 – Strong Friendship – You trust each other. You talk about meaningful parts of your life. You’re open, but not completely open. You’d call him at 2am in a crisis, but you don’t know what’s going on with each other by checking in consistently.
Level 5 – Deep Friendship – This friendship adds a purposeful commitment to meet and consistently connect. You disclose struggles, pray for each other, confess sins, erase secrets, stay accountable and pull each other closer to God.
In the most recent blog, we started to unpack the description of Level 5 Friendship. You’ll notice that the first sentence describes the conditions to achieve it. Three C’s if that helps you remember…
The Three C’s of Forging Level 5 Friendship
Now, let’s look at that second line of Level 5: You disclose struggles, pray for each other, confess sins, erase secrets, stay accountable and pull each other closer to God.
These are the weekly behaviors of deep friends. It takes investment, but is totally worth the sacrifice.
The 5 Things You’ll Sacrifice for Level 5 Friendship
It might seem like a lot and feel difficult, but it’s worth it. Especially when you look at what it leads to.
The 5 Things You’ll Gain From Level 5 Friendship
Want to get started today? Download the Playbook for Level 5 Friendship now.
Jeff Kemp was an NFL Quarterback and has extensively been involved in ministry, coaching, speaking and team building since his professional sports retirement. Jeff and his wife, Stacy, have been married 35 years and mentor young couples. They have four married sons and love tennis, skiing, and spending time with family. Find out more about Jeff and his ministry at his website.